top of page

End the Cycle

End the cycle for me means ending intergenerational abuse due to generational cycles of violence by bringing awareness of how untreated persons with past trauma can easily continue this abusive cycle with the help of unknowing individuals, domestic abuse advocates and government agencies.
 

This is my story of how:

  • My love and significant other, due to years of childhood trauma of sexual, physical and emotional abuse suffers from a undiagnosed mental health disorder.

​​

  • My family was destroyed with the help from the State of Minnesota.
     

  • My family was destroyed with the help from Safe Haven, a woman's rights advocacy group.
     

  • My family was destroyed with the help from Justice North, a civil legal aid group.

 

  • My family was destroyed with the help from my significant others family and friends.​
     

  • My two youngest children were taken from me and placed in the care of the abuser.

 

  • An Order for Protection, OFP can be requested and approved in an emergency status which allows for only one party to be heard by the court.
     

  • There is an Emergency Order for Protection against me from my significant other and our children based on false allegations.​​

  • I have fought in court against alleged allegations of years of domestic abuse from me against my family.

​

  • I do not have physical or legal custody of my two youngest children because I'm an unmarried man.

​

  • I am fighting for custody of these two children in an additional child custody case.

​

  • I have years of evidence proving my defense in the OFP case and have been heard in court.  The only issue is the wheels of justice move slowly.

​

  • I have years of evidence proving that intergenerational abuse is real, is dangerous and will continue to destroy families if our government continues to support it.

​

  • Borderline Personality Disorder is real, is dangerous and when ignored, it destroys families.

What kind of change is needed?

to end the cycle

Emergency orders for protection laws need to change and line up with our due process of law.

Right now the process is guilty until proven innocent based on the statements made by one party without needing to provide any evidence.

Just a five minute phone call from the court to the other party can provide hard evidence to the contrary of the reporting parties statements.

If the court investigated the statements being made in the emergency OFP it could provide hard evidence to the contrary of the reporting parties statements.  Such as following up on alleged past convictions plus past and current police reports.

Perjury needs to be charged for false allegations.

In the case of mental health disorders the court should consider hospitalizations with treatment rather than prison time.

In any case perjury needs to be recorded so future allegations can be determined factual based on evidence versus sworn statements.

Mental health disorders, including Borderline Personality Disorder is understood.

Even so, our government does not do enough to help treat individuals with childhood trauma and falls back onto their families to help these individuals.

Many times those families are the cause for the childhood trauma and are also suffering from mental health disorders themselves.

Thus, intergenerational abuse.  It just continues at each and every generation because no one Ends the Cycle.

Unmarried fathers need to have automatic 50/50 custody of their children when a signed recognition of parenthood is filed with the State Health Department.

Unmarried mothers and married mothers / fathers automatically have physical and legal custody of their children.  Being an unmarried man should be no different when it comes to physical and legal custody of their children.

Our current laws require every unmarried couple to file a child custody case in court to provide unmarried fathers with physical and legal custody of their children.

This is my story...

Keep up to date

Contact
bottom of page