March 25, 2025
Thank you for visiting my page! I truly appreciate all the support I’ve received and am grateful for your continued encouragement.
This website exists to expose the deep flaws in our biased, outdated, and unconstitutional system regarding false allegations of domestic violence. It also highlights the unfair practices in our courts - especially how gender bias affects victims of domestic violence.
The home page offers only a broad overview of the issue. For documented evidence, please visit the "My Blog" page, where I provide case details and supporting materials with full transparency.
Why I’m Speaking Out
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To reunite my two young children with me and their older siblings.
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To end the trauma my children are experiencing.
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To advocate for fathers facing similar battles - especially those without as much evidence as I have.
If I have to fight this hard with clear proof, what happens to fathers who lack documentation? Most give up. Not because they don’t love their children, but because fighting the system is an impossible battle. The government upholds decades-old precedents that make it nearly impossible for fathers to get justice. Who suffers? The families - especially the children.
Exposing the System
I’ve fought back, and I have proof. Here’s just one example:
I recorded a conversation with the guardian ad litem, whose sole duty is to protect my children’s best interests. After witnessing the trauma my children displayed at our first visit, I asked her to attend the second. In our recorded conversation afterward, she acknowledged the trauma but refused to hold their mother accountable - despite the fact that she had sole custody after kidnapping them five months prior. Here is that audio.
In her official report, she omitted these concerns and instead recommended that my children remain with their mother - while I was granted only limited, supervised visitation.
Later, after receiving her temporary recommendation against shared custody, I confronted her about why she made that decision hoping she would change her mind. I reminded her that I provided her with clear evidence to the contrary of her concerns:
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Police reports
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Witness statements
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The mother’s own court testimony
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A history of false abuse allegations proven untrue in prior rulings and police reports
Here is that audio.
She admitted she hadn’t reviewed the evidence - and refused to revise her recommendation. Instead, she later asked the court to remove my website and even took away my additional visitation time - not because I was unfit, but because I hadn't seen my children since January. The truth? Their mother manipulated the visitation center’s policies to prevent me from documenting the abuse. And every other visitation center is full. I am trying to see my kids but not at the expense of utilizing a facility that supports child abuse.
See blog post: https://www.ryanalvar.com/post/no-more-visitations for documentation.
So, was my visitation increase revoked because I didn’t see my kids? Or because my website exposed the truth?
Standing Against Censorship
I am now facing a motion for contempt of court simply for sharing the guardian ad litem’s report. I will not back down. I will not remove it.
Thank you for your continued support. We are gaining traction. With your help, we can demand a system that prioritizes children’s well-being and takes mental health seriously.
I fight because I know where I will stand when this is over. Where you stand today can make a difference. Please stand with me.
Thank you,
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